How to get your ex back.. or not and live happily ever after, even After Breaking Up
Sunday October 4th 2015

How Do You Know If A Woman Is Attracted To You?

The mysteries of attraction! Imagine a formula that would enable any man to know if and when a woman is interested in him.

A method which he could easily use to determine if he should approach a woman he is interested in, pursue his efforts or simply give up.

Signs a Woman Is Attracted to You

Well although we cannot call it a formula as such, there is actually something like that and you might even be using it already. It’s called the art of reading the signals we send about ourselves.

It is an art you would do well to learn about if you really want to know about male and female attraction to men!

It is the art of body language interpretation!

Politicians, the police, the army and a whole spectrum of organizations and institutions worldwide have long recognized the usefulness of being able to read someone’s body language and you will find body language experts advising some of the most powerful men and women in any number of fields. There is indeed a whole lot that can be learned from body language and it is in fact a discipline that is much sought after.

But you don’t have to be an expert to use this incredible tool. Chances are you already do even if you don’t realize it and today I will share with you six simple signals that can tell you a great deal about the interest a woman may have in you.  The best thing is that it is even relatively easy to become fluent in the “body language interpretation business” or at least proficient enough to get you the information you need.

Once you have read this article, make sure to check David DeAngelo’s Dating Book which you can find here:

Click Here To Learn How To Date From The Best: Double Your Dating!

In the meantime…. Consider that you are in the presence of someone who is getting angry.  So angry in fact that this anger may explode with unwelcome consequences.  If that were to happen, chances are you would instinctively sense that something important is about to take place before it actually does, giving you the opportunity and the time to either diffuse the situation or move away from potential danger.

What has happened that gave you this clue?  You were able to interpret the signs this person was sending out about his  increasing anger even if these signals were unnoticeable. Indeed you were being cognitive of his body language and this ability is deeply rooted as a defense mechanism.

Women have been doing this since the beginning of times, are still having to do it and the fact that they can read these types of signals enables them to be more sensitive to their environment and ultimately safer.  Over time they have trained themselves to pay attention to such signals some time as matter of life and death.

It is this very ability to read body language that women also draw upon when assessing a potential partner and they will usually know a great deal about a person before that person has even had the opportunity to realize they were being “evaluated”.

The good news is you can do the same thing yourself!  You just have to pay attention, learn to see and listen as opposed to look and hear.

So what are the signs that a woman is attracted to a man?

Eye Contact. Imagine you are sitting in a bar and all of a sudden you feel that someone is looking at you. You turn around and there she is, looking at you. If it’s a fleeting glance and she then looks away never to look at you again, then she might have just looked in your direction and not at you. But when a woman is attracted to a man, she will usually find a reason to look at him, either directly, or in glances.  Here is the thing.  If she is looking at you, it may not just be because she finds you interesting, but she may also be trying to establish whether you are looking at her too. Eye contact is an important indicator of a woman’s interest.

Smiles. If both of you have indeed made eye contact, it is often the case that the woman will follow this up with a smile.  Shy or otherwise, a smile once eye contact has been made is yet another indicator that this lady is finding you interesting.

Head / Hair Toss.  Hair is often regarded as a sign of feminine health.  When a woman tosses her hair, she is usually saying “look at me!  I am pretty!  And I want you to notice me!”

Lip Nibble.  Probably the one body language men can usually notice and for good reasons.  It works.

Hair Flick.  I have read somewhere that this is a favorite flirting gesture as it suggests a projection of the essence of a woman.  Essence or not, the hair flick may be a way to expose more of herself, granting the lucky object of this lady’s attention a more “intimate” view of her face, neck, ears….

Neck Stroking.  Very much a continuation of the hair flick, this is a technique that stimulates and draw attention.

There you have it.  A very few examples of some of things men never see, just because they don’t know how to look.


Now, a word or two of caution…

Whilst body gesture are important indicators of male and female attraction , it is important to note that body language is not an exact science.

Use common sense, look, listen, learn…

Click Here To Learn How To Date From The Best: Double Your Dating!

Related Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

17 Comments for “How Do You Know If A Woman Is Attracted To You?”

  • William Earl Amis Jr III says:


    You have a very interesting fact finding about reading the movements of a woman who is interested. These are nice and easy to make apart of your daily adventures.

    I love this article, being it is a powerful way of mastering a skill. Back when I was out dating over 18 years ago. The key factor was making a women smile. All ways keeping eye contact is a must.

    This today, still works with me being out and about. I have noticed my surroundings. You can observe others and see just as the writer here states. You may pick-up other reactions of visual contact, with two interested parties. But, keeping it simple. Stevie has nailed this one.

    I agree, to also watch for the squinting of the eyes, and wetting lips at the same time. This is a great key indicator, that they are willing to communicate.

    Constantly passing by your area, where they would have direct eye contact. This is to avoid you having any mistakes understanding their interest is for you. Placing music in a music player. Going for smokes in the machine. Other reasons to make sure you understand, this eye contact is for you.

    Stevie, always something for all on your site. Love what your doing to support others. Hey, everyone needs passionate supporting mentors, such as yourself.’

    I am looking forward to my next visit. Learning daily is amazing with real content to use.


  • Dr. Erica Goodstone says:

    You have certainly pinpointed some strategic body language that women will often use, without even realizing it. So a man who understands this has a good chance of connecting if he is interested also.


    Dr. Dad Reply:

    Hello Erica, nice to see you again. There is so much people miss because they don’t look! Body language can tell us so much, but it’s also not an exact science.


  • Julieanne van Zyl says:

    Hi Stevie, now you’ve got me trying to remember first of all how many years it is, since I went out hoping to meet someone. And, second, what used to happen. I worked it out – it was 28 years ago, and the last person I met is my hubby now!

    We met at a disco (that’s what “night clubs” were called those days:-) I was with a girlfriend and she kept saying “look at that guy over there, he looks like your type”. I got tired of her saying it, so I said “well, why don’t you ask him to dance then”. So, she did and she went out with him one night. They didn’t have much in common, then a few weeks later he was there again! This time we danced together and the rest is history:-) We did have a lot of eye contact while dancing, can’t remember about the other signals!

    bye for now, Julieanne


    Dr. Dad Reply:

    Ahhh, them days of the discotheques!!!


  • Peter Fuller MBA says:

    Hey Stevie

    When I first saw the title of your article I thought that I had no idea :)

    Thanks for the tips, I now know what to look out for if I am out and about meeting people.

    My question is what are the signs for men, I suppose we are easy :)



  • Mandy Swift @ Your Online Marketing "Personal Trainer" says:

    Hi Stevie, what a fun article. As a woman, I must say, I thought these things were all ‘obvious’, I didn’t realise you poor blokes would need to go to a blog to read about all this stuff!! Maybe us women should learn to be less ‘subtle’ :)
    ps, I have the same questions as Peter – how to know if a bloke is ‘interested’ …
    Fun article, thanks :)


  • Tony Tate@Business Building says:

    In my own opinion, I think we women have different attitudes. There are women who are very obvious when they like a guy just as you stated in your blog that you will know it through eye contact, smiles etc.. But actually, there are also women who doesn’t show any signs that they like a guy unless they say it to you. But in general (as what I noticed), most girls are obvious when they like guys…


    Dr. Dad Reply:

    I don’t disagree with you Tony that there are times when women to not display their feelings in such obvious fashion as described in the article but, there are always signs. But you have raised an excellent point.


  • Linnea says:

    Hi Stevie,

    You are so right about body language. It’s a great way to tell where you stand with someone and whether or not they are interested. Very similar to the hair flip (and neck) is the hair twirl.


  • Trevor Barrett@Money Advice says:

    Stevie, this reminds me of a chat show trailer over here in the U.K. The host said to the first guest “Now Debbie, what is it that attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels.”

    U.K. reader will know who these are but suffice to say that PD was a short magician who appeared on T.V. all the time and Debbie was his beautiful tall assistant.

    So, when I am a multi millionaire, I will know that lots of women will be attracted to me…


    Dr. Dad Reply:

    ROLF… A man’s got to do what a man’s got to do!


  • Bill says:

    try to not get into your head. If your mind is clear and your present. You will naturally have good body language. When it comes to watching her body language. Sometimes it’s not good to watch to much because this puts you back inside your head.


  • Sandy says:

    I really enjoyed your post.

    Thank you and success!


  • santa monica real estate says:

    I think eye contact is definitely one of the most important factors in telling whether or not a woman is into you. But at least some of the other indicators you mentioned here are important too, touching, flirting, etc. I have been on dates with guys that I was polite with and made eye contact with so as not to be rude, but I was not interested in them, so it’s important to either ask the woman outright, or if you want to be subtle then look for the signs!


    Dr. Dad Reply:

    Thank you Tracey for your comment. It is a combination of so many things that can show whether a woman is attracted to a man, and it is sometimes difficult to get a clear answer unless the woman makes it obvious.


  • Steve-Prosper With Aspergers says:

    Dr. Dad, thanks for putting this article together. Many of the male readers at my blog could benefit from this, since individuals on the autism spectrum have a very hard time understanding facial expressions. This article is a great map for reading the social scene.


Leave a Comment

More from category

Dating Multiple People – It’s a Tough World Out There
Dating Multiple People – It’s a Tough World Out There

I am so glad I am not dating anymore. Not that embarking on a quest that eventually leads to the discovery of the love [Read More]

Who Picks Up The Bill On A First Date
Who Picks Up The Bill On A First Date

Here are some dating tips for men to consider: Coming as I do from a time where chivalry was the norm, it was usual for [Read More]

Are You In The Proverbial Dating Rut?
Are You In The Proverbial Dating Rut?

Here is an article for the ladies, and the men who want to date them! Have you ever felt that your love life was going [Read More]

Can Your Ex-Girlfriends Really Teach You Anything?

Attempting to learn from an Ex Girlfriend! Intriguing as it might be that I choose to write about this topic when so [Read More]