How to get your ex back – or should you just forget about her/him and move on?
It’s not an easy thing to have a broken heart! In fact, it’s so darn painful that the process of dealing with the ending of a relationship is not entirely different to that of the grieving felt when someone you know and love passes away.
The same emotions come into play, the same sense of loss, the effects it has and how we deal with, all these are common aspects, two different worlds meeting at the cross point where sadness resides. It’s the same pool of tears.
Similar feelings of anger, despair, loneliness, anguish, anxiety, loss of intimacy.
Of course, it is not my intention to diminish the sense of loss associated with death, but the ending of a relationship is also a closure, a time to say your good byes and move on.
Or is?
If you are in a situation where the relationship with you current partner has ended because “the love you felt for each other ran its course and it was time for the two of you to move”, should you make your peace with what was and embrace the future?
This is raging question, one who’s answer cannot be predicted, for who in his/her own right mind could even venture a prediction of matters of the heart.
And yet, there is a mathematical formula somewhere that sets upon doing just that. Imagine being able to plug a set of data, start a computer up and get a precise representation of where a marriage is heading, mathematically accurate in more than 96% of the cases.
It refers to Break Up Prevention of course and not to what happens after a breakup so if you’re not there yet, at the dreaded crossroad where the two of you go their separate ways, then you should certainly check it out!
If you want to explore avenues to help you get back with ex, then you will want to read the Win Your Ex Back section.
My personal views about these types of courses is that they can only help two people get back together IF there is possibility that love still exists. In some case, people walk away from each other simply because they don’t know better or have acted stupidly. If this is your case, and I am NOT intending to offend in any way, then perhaps you can draw some wisdom from some of these courses. Let it be said though that most of what you would read in these eBooks is probably written here, free for you to find, but many people like the thought of a how-to type of course, and if you are like that, then good luck to you.
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Dr. Dad Reply:
December 22nd, 2011 at 3:25 pm
Well, at least you’re not afraid of expressing yourself.
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Every persons pain feels different from the other. Although I must say that coping up from a break up starts with accepting that it ends. Nice blog!
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Dr. Dad Reply:
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