As I was researching material for this product, unbeknown to me, a good friend of mine experienced a betrayal which in his own words feels as destructive as having to deal with infidelity on the part of a spouse. Reading through his story, you might understand his point of view. Here is the tale of a friend, a man like you and I, or someone you know! Let’s call him Alex for lack of a better name, as I do want to protect his identity. This story is a combination of two parts. Below is the first part. Love is not enough is the second part. Like most human dramas, there are always two sides in any story. Here you will read about my own perception of what has happened. It is based on personal observations and the fact that I know both parties. I fully recognize that there is plenty of blame to go around and my story may not reflect Alex’s wife own version of the facts. I should also add that Alex’s wife is as wonderful a woman as Alex is a man. In February of 2007, Alex who had been the lucky husband of a quite extraordinary woman lost his wife through illness. What felt like unbearable heart ache, the loss of a loved one, especially someone he commonly referred to as his soul mate, turned into numbness and every shade of grief and tears that are the consequences of something like that. It was as if he had lost part of himself. And all of a sudden, a life that had been so sweet was no longer. Or so it seemed. Then one day, lady luck smiled upon him and Alex, once more found love. A woman and her two kids walked right into his heart and a year later, literally into his home. They got married, made a pledge to each other, for better and for worse… You know what I am talking about. And thus they lived in happiness and bliss until the summer of 2011. Four years they had spent together, four years filled with endless moments of pure joy and the knowledge that theirs was a couple who would outlive the test of time. They had met through a dating site and we often times even joked that they should appear in some of the TV ads of this dating company as a proof that in their case, meeting each other through their services had been a complete success. They were the shiny examples of all that was good in the world of dating and marriages… And then last week, this world was broken and I explain what happens in this article about love gone awol! If you have read my previous articles, you will know that when it comes to relationship, dating, marriage and the whole love thing, I am usually an eternal optimist. What happened to my friend, as you will see is the demonstration that sometimes love isn’t enough! Still if you are a wife or girlfriend who is eager to learn how to get him and keep him, make sure to click on the ad below! Just so you know, if you were to purchase this program put together by Christian Carter, I would earn a fee. So thanks if you do, and let me know it if helped you!
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It is unfortunate for Alex that he lost one love to illness and then after what was a blissful marriage, find out it is not so great. This happens a lot… unfortunately. My current boyfriend was previously married for 8 years to a dreadful woman. I am not sure how he stayed through it, but she was ugly inside, enough that when I met his coworkers, they were all too eager to tell me about how terrible she was that they actually hated her. I did not know whether to pity her or be disgusted. I decided to take pity as maybe she was raised like that.
Some people make bad choices. I would not wish anything bad on anyone’s marriage, nor is it in my own morals to interfere with another’s marriage. In these days, so many people have been divorce… including me, but I still have a belief that marriage is sacred.
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Dr. Dad Reply:
December 7th, 2011 at 3:30 pm
I happen to agree with you Nile. Marriage should be sacred. And this is why this story has shaken me so much. Theirs looked like the perfect relationship. They had met through an online dating site (eHarmony) and were even joking that they should call eHarmony to feature in one of the videos this dating companies puts out on TV.
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Girls do the same thing, I’ve had it happen a few times. It doesn’t make sense. Thanks for the article.
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Dr. Dad Reply:
December 8th, 2011 at 2:12 pm
Actually, in this article, it is the lady who’s done it!
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Hi Dr Dad!
Thanks for the post. Even though i am already happily married, i dont think that betrayal is something that will happen in our marriage, but it was really fun reading this article. Actually, me and my husband also met online
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Dr. Dad Reply:
December 9th, 2011 at 1:35 pm
Hi Eleonara,
The reason this story has shaken my up so deeply is precisely because theirs was really a marriage made in heaven. One look at them is all it usually took for most to realize how deeply these two loved each other. They had a rock solid marriage. He loved her and her two kids and it appears she would always be in his life. I am very happy that you think this type of betrayal will never happen to you, but in the case of my friend, it did.
How was really fun reading this article by the way?
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I just can’t imagine what goes into the head of this woman who betrayed his husband when she was accepted by the guy with a package at hand. She really is the problem, I think the only thing she wants is to collects babies or men, whatever comes first. Such a pity for the man.
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Dr. Dad Reply:
December 9th, 2011 at 1:38 pm
I can’t understand it either. She seemed to have it all! A man who loved her and accepted her two kids as his own. And he was sure she loved him too… Up until recently. Now he feels these past few years were really nothing more than a lie.
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I think it’s love when you are happier with that person than without, the person makes you happy, when you care about what is best for them. I met my husband on my birthday. I was looking for a house to buy and he was the realtor showing me the house. I called his office because I saw an ad for his company and he was very charming on the phone. We got married a little over a year later, on New Years Eve. We have been married for almost 12 years and have 4 kids. You never where or when you will meet that special one!
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I really loved this post. You write about the topic of after a break up very well. I really like your blog and I will definitely bookmark it! Keep up the super posts!
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Marriage is about committing with your love one and to God.. This is not just a joke decision, that’s the reason why its better to spent to your in-relationship a long time to be secure with what marriage goes to.
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Thanks for finally talking about > Betrayal – In Love One Moment, Out Of His Life The Next! < Loved it!
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This is an incredibly sad story. Two people who love each other but are not able to make it! Very sad indeed.
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